How to have gay sex
Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to stare after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a experiment but not sure how to begin?
We can assist you become a excel bottom! Here are some quick bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.
1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to terminate damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to support protect it from infections.
Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you experience safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people involved are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good partner and you can’t trial pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).
3. R
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering diverse gay sex positions not only heightens the encounter but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a uppermost or bottom?” Don’t panic . These terms might be common within the Queer community, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve put together an ever-growing list of LGBTQ+ terminology.
At Bespoke Surgical, we believe about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you explore, it’s important to understand their differences:
- Affect the top and the bottom in alternative ways
- Bring out both following or aggressive characteristics of each person
- Require an comprehending of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)
Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and honest communication. It’s key
Sexual health for male lover and bisexual men
Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to pass on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
Using a condom helps shield against HIV and lowers the risk of getting many other STIs.
If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone novel, you should have an STI and HIV try every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is important, as some STIs do not generate any symptoms.
Hepatitis A
Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.
Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can obtain it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated food and drink.
Symptoms of hepatitis A can materialize up to 8 weeks after sex and encompass tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).
Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a occupied recovery within a couple of months.
MSM can evade getting hepatitis A by:
- washing hands after se
LGBTQIA+ Safer Sex Guide
Zero.
Disgracefully, that’s the number of U.S. states that need sex education curriculums be comprehensively inclusive to LGBTQIA+ folks.
Most sex training programs, instead, assume that those receiving the data are both heterosexual and cisgender. If there’s anything less cute than clogs, it’s that degree of homophobia and transphobia.
That’s why we worked with GLSEN, Advocates for Youth, and two queer sex educators to create a safer sex guide that understands the true complexity and diversity across gender identities, sexual orientation, attractions, and experiences.
Only 5 (ish) percent of LGBTQIA+ students saw any LGBTQIA+ representation in health class.
This guide is for the 95 percent of students whose many sexual health questions went unanswered in school.
It’s also for any LGBTQIA+ person who’s ever wondered:
- “What conversations should I have with a partner before sex?”
- “Is there a peril of pregnancy or STI transmission during [insert sex act here]?”
- “What can I do to construct sex even better?”
- “How do I become relaxed with my own body?”
Or anything else associated to sexual health, sexual plea
.
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering diverse gay sex positions not only heightens the encounter but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a uppermost or bottom?” Don’t panic . These terms might be common within the Queer community, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve put together an ever-growing list of LGBTQ+ terminology.
At Bespoke Surgical, we believe about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you explore, it’s important to understand their differences:
- Affect the top and the bottom in alternative ways
- Bring out both following or aggressive characteristics of each person
- Require an comprehending of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)
Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and honest communication. It’s key
Sexual health for male lover and bisexual men
Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to pass on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
Using a condom helps shield against HIV and lowers the risk of getting many other STIs.
If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone novel, you should have an STI and HIV try every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is important, as some STIs do not generate any symptoms.
Hepatitis A
Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.
Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can obtain it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated food and drink.
Symptoms of hepatitis A can materialize up to 8 weeks after sex and encompass tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).
Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a occupied recovery within a couple of months.
MSM can evade getting hepatitis A by:
- washing hands after se
LGBTQIA+ Safer Sex Guide
Zero.
Disgracefully, that’s the number of U.S. states that need sex education curriculums be comprehensively inclusive to LGBTQIA+ folks.
Most sex training programs, instead, assume that those receiving the data are both heterosexual and cisgender. If there’s anything less cute than clogs, it’s that degree of homophobia and transphobia.
That’s why we worked with GLSEN, Advocates for Youth, and two queer sex educators to create a safer sex guide that understands the true complexity and diversity across gender identities, sexual orientation, attractions, and experiences.
Only 5 (ish) percent of LGBTQIA+ students saw any LGBTQIA+ representation in health class.
This guide is for the 95 percent of students whose many sexual health questions went unanswered in school.
It’s also for any LGBTQIA+ person who’s ever wondered:
- “What conversations should I have with a partner before sex?”
- “Is there a peril of pregnancy or STI transmission during [insert sex act here]?”
- “What can I do to construct sex even better?”
- “How do I become relaxed with my own body?”
Or anything else associated to sexual health, sexual plea
.