Gay fraternity stories
On a cold, stormy September night in 2018, my 14 fraternity pledge brothers and I received this ambiguous text from one of our pledge masters:
“Tonight’s education meeting is canceled. At 11pm, you will all load into three of your cars and drive to the destination I send you. Convey a first aid kit, five jugs of moisture, three shovels, and a triangular-shaped candle. Dress in all black.”
My mind raced with questions. What could this mean?
An hour later, my palms choked the steering wheel of my Ford pickup truck as I drove from our fraternity house at the University of Southern California toward an unnamed talk to in Manhattan Beach. In the car with me were four of my pledge brothers.
“It’s got to be beach-related,” said a brother from the endorse seat, his voice barely audible over the rain pounding on my windshield.
“Maybe it’s a residence party,” another suggested.
“It’s definitely not a house party,” the one in the passenger seat countered. “We’re getting hazed tonight, boys!”
A knot of anxiety tightened in my stomach. This moment, shrouded in uncertainty, mirrored the complex feelings I’d been wrestling with since joining the fraternity three weeks earlier. As t
A Rainbow in the Frat House: A Gay Man's Exploration of Greek Life
Going to college for many is seen as very challenging and fearful, but for me, it was a great escape. Coming from a small rural town in North Carolina and being gay came with more challenges than one could assume. Moving to college was an adventure that was the beginning of finding people like myself, those who only saw people for who they are rather than their identity. On my first day at Virginia Tech, I immediately felt that everyone around me was so bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, eager to discover the mysteries of living amongst your peers as an adult. During the fall season, amongst move-in, the beginning of classes, football games, and meeting new people, everyone agrees that this strength makes the air undergo exciting. For me, even at some points, it was draining trying to keep up with all these events. However, I knew I was determined to find myself at a school that never seemed to sleep.
During move-in, I settled into my dorm and immediately went into the common area to talk to as many people as possible; I was already pre-determined to find my group. However, finding a collective can take time
Joining a Fraternity as a Homosexual Man
BurberryLover1
<p>Right now, I am currently attending a community college and I have always thought about joining the Greek life when I transfer to a 4-year university. The problem is, as indicated on the title of this thread, I am not particularly…fond of women in a way that heterosexuals are. The question of whether I would even be accepted into a fraternity if I am queer has always been on my mind for a while with nobody to answer it for me, considering that anybody I talk to on a regular basis doesn’t appear all that interested in joining a fraternity/sorority. So, just to give more information as to what I should do, I will tell you a little bit about myself and the reasons of why I want to join. Whoever can assist me, I would be so grateful if you would respond to my post, especially if you are already in a fraternity/sorority or if you’re the head of a certain charter.</p>
<p>So, about me, I don’t want to sound like that I am stereotyping myself or anything, but I act have a lot of qualities and traits that what society would hope for from a gay guy. For instance, I absolutely adore shopping and I love
Frat Boys
I never joined a frat, but my Roommate in college did... he didn't live in the Frat-house , but stayed at our apartment. Anyway he would invite me to most of his Frat's parties or even just to hang at the house with them sometimes, so I knew almost all his Frat Brothers. And of course there was always lots of drinking, sex converse and 'gay dares' going on playfully which was HOT!
And I have to preface this that my roommate and I had been jacking off to porn together for a while, had several 3-ways with a girl we knew and I had sucked him off a few times (all another story).
Anyway one afternoon I was at our Apartment hanging out after classes. my roommate was still at class for a several hours. At some point one of his Frat Brothers I knew came over to suspend with my roommate...I said he wasn't home but that he could approach in and wait...I got him a beer and we just sat and chatted while watching TV...after several beers, he turned the conversation to sex...he whined about not having a GF and said all the girls he met were prudes and wouldn't put out...he went on to mention that my roommate had told him about our 3-way, so I admitted to it and he asked a bunch of ques
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